{"id":2368,"date":"2020-01-15T15:38:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-15T21:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gbthemes.net\/sublime\/?p=2368"},"modified":"2020-10-04T22:15:26","modified_gmt":"2020-10-05T04:15:26","slug":"2368","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/2020\/01\/15\/2368\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s up with single ladies &#038; many chances?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A friend of mine has been going through tough times with her guy,&nbsp; for a while now. The guy has cheated, lied, not kept his words, and my dear friend, just keeps forgiving and accepting this guys back into her life.&nbsp; I mean, I like the part of forgiveness which is so good, and needful.<br \/>\n<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Finally, my friend decided to move on, and I was very happy for her decision.<\/p>\n<p>However, in less than a week, she came to show me an engagement ring, saying &#8220;its all settled now, we are in a better place&#8221;. She also showed me the guy&#8217;s messages saying how much he loves her. And am like &#8220;really??? that fixes everything?? Of course, I couldn&#8217;t blame her,&nbsp; because I&#8217;ve been in her shoes before, and so have many other ladies I know&#8230;but then the question is why do ladies do this to themselves? why do we keep hanging on? Why do we believe a guy that has lied, cheated, never kept to his words, why do we take them when they crawl back??<\/p>\n<p>Is it the lack of confidence in ourselves that we can meet a better person? Come to think of it, if the guy is already a bad person, chances are that you won\u2019t meet worse but a better person. He that is down really needs fear no fall.<\/p>\n<p>So, just take a bold step and step put of that web of unending chances that gradually saps the peace out of you! Let me know what you think.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A friend of mine has been going through tough times with her guy,&nbsp; for a while now. The guy has cheated, lied, not kept his&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/2020\/01\/15\/2368\/\"><i class=\"icon-long-arrow-right font-ic\"><\/i> Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2409,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[40],"class_list":["post-2368","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-generally-speaking","tag-ladies"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baringthoughts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/HNCK4278_01.jpg?fit=1650%2C1040&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2368","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2368"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2368\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2508,"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2368\/revisions\/2508"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2409"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2368"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2368"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baringthoughts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2368"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}