When Your Dream Guy/Lady isn’t worth The Dream

When Your Dream Guy/Lady isn’t worth The Dream

Have you ever fantasized so much about the idea of being with a particular guy/lady, that you feel you are almost in love before being in a relationship… only to find out he or she isn’t worth it?

The truth is, there are times when you meet someone and really like them with all your heart. At times, it might be for their looks, or intellect. At other times, you might not be able to place the reason, but you just really crushing on them. You might even like them very much before they notice you!

If you are a lady, you begin to act all perfect when that guy is around, just literally making the best effort so he can initiate the first move. (Although, some ladies, are bold enough to make that move lol.)

In any case, the person eventually gives you some good attention and you are beyond happy that things are moving in the right direction. Few months into the relationship, the veil falls off, and you realize this guy/lady was not all you’d hoped for. In fact, none of those beautiful dreams and imaginations you had about them turned out to be real.

So disappointing right?

So, what exactly do you do when your dream guy/lady isn’t worth that dream?

Do you discard the dream and stick with the person?  

Or

Do you discard the person and hold on to your dream, in the hopes of relieving it with someone else?

What will you do?

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